“In like manner also, that women adorn themselves in modest apparel, with shamefacedness and sobriety; not with broided hair, or gold, or pearls, or costly array.”
(Timothy 2:9)
Now I am prepared to push out into a new field of advice which may onlyget me in hot water, but I have been there before... grin.
I am going to give advice to the lovelorn and those who may be seeking counsel about finding a proper mate. One that will stick with you for better or worse.
My field of expertise is in advising a lady who is searching to attract a good man. I have very little experience in attracting women. Because to the best of my knowledge I have only managed to get the attention of one.. and that was over fifty years ago.. But I will have to boast a little here. That one was a dandy, and we have been married for 50 years.. smile. But I am able to speak on this subject as a man. So here goes.
Laura and I have been out shopping today. I followed my own rules and stayed back out of the way and kept my mouth shut.
What do I know about shopping in the first place? She will tell me if my feet start hurting and I need to go home.
But back to the subject at hand.
I will give you young ladies some of the best advice you will ever hear. Every male seems to be born with the ability to spot wolf bait. Or else they learn it the hard way.
What do I mean by wolf bait?
First let me assure you of something. Clothes play only a small part in enriching the beauty of a woman. I have seen a number of women over these years that seem to radiate beauty to all men. I married the one I mentioned above, and she is still very pretty to me after all these years.
Now let me get back to the wolf bait thing.
I doubt that most women really understand what I am talking about, or perhaps they do understand and make a choice to present themselves as wolf bait. I saw a few today who had wolf bait written all over them, by the clothes they wore and in other more subtle ways.
Generally speaking the clothes image is measured in just a few ways. The tighter the jeans, the lower the neckline and the higher the hemline, and the more flesh that is exposed, the more clear the message is.
Many real beauties project an image of modesty that men quickly pick up on. Yes, decent men of good character see wolf bait clearly. But the lack of modesty is a signal to them to shy away from you. They just know.
But consider this if you come across as wolf bait. The men you will attract tend to be wolves.
Young ladies, you may even think that is what you are looking for in a potential mate, but thousands of your sisters before you have learned too late what a mistake they have made.
You see, a wolf has a strong tendency to be a wolf for life, and even after you say your vows. He continues to be on the lookout for more wolf bait.
Ignore my words at your own risk...grin.
Needmore Days
Wolf Bait

